Hot Dating Tip #6: Be cool.

The keener you are, the cooler you should be. If you chase her, she will run. If you crowd her, she will want space. Be unavailable and she will follow you around like a dog. Learn how to generate attraction and you will become a babe magnet.

Women are attracted to men who are self-confident, who know who they are and know where they are going. That may mean that you need to get your act together in certain areas of your life before you can put energy into developing a truly cool persona.

Uncool is clingy, needy, emotionally immature. Uncool is being a doormat.

So what is cool? Cool is confident. Cool is unhurried. Cool is laid back. Cool is taking charge. You want to see cool in action? Watch a Cary Grant movie. Or Sean Connery as James Bond. Or Clint Eastwood.

Did I say this was going to be easy? When did you last do something worthwhile that required no effort? Read my book!